Conversation

If I asked some of you to share with me about your favorite band, sport or place to eat...you could talk my ear off!!!! But here is a harder question, for all the time some of us spend inside the walls of the church, can we really explain what we believe about Christ or do we look like Ms. Teen USA South Carolina trying to explain why kids can't use maps?(search youtube for miss teen usa)
In the business world, a salesperson should be able to explain their product and why you should buy one in the time it takes to ride an elevator from the first to the 5th floor. While we aren't selling Jesus, we should be able to tell people what we believe in our own words.

How would you answer this question:
"What's the big deal about Jesus?"

Follow the Leader?

Describe a "real" leader.
A leader is not __________.
A leader has to be __________.

How do you thing Jesus would define a leader?
What does the world say a leader should be like?

(yall take a stab at this then I will come back
in a week with my own thoughts and comments)

What does this verse mean?

"In his heart a man plans his course,
but the LORD determines his steps". Proverbs 16:9

Fun in the Son theme

"Let us FIX our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfector of our faith"
Hebrews 12:2

If yall want to see the DVD or hear the talks/interviews again by Nasser, Duffy, One Time Blind, Tom Ricks and me....let me know and I'll get it to you.
REMINDER: We are slowly reading Philippians as a youth ministry and checking in weekly at BYBS and wherever else we meet.

Brooklynn Mission and Great Escape

God the "Bender"

Today my friends we are going to talk about a big churchy word with a beautful meaning....today's word is: PROVIDENCE
My favorite definition is: "God taking a situation or event meant for harm and BENDING it the other way, making it good".

Right off the bat I think about September 11th, the death of my good friends son, and Hurricane Katrina. All of these events were tragic and in each event I can tell you countless stories of how God used these tragedies for good!!

How about you?? Have you ever seen God bend something for Good?

PROVIDENCE: pretty cool word huh?

"To God be the GLORY great things he hath done"
God is Good,
nate

CULTURE

What does our culture say about God? Do Fergi,Kanye,Ipods,Spiderman,Bra-ngelina,high school musical,the fray and stranger than fiction have something to say about God?
The answer is YES!!!
I challenge you to listen to music, watch movies, and read books asking the question, What does this say about God?

here's your homework:
watch a flic or read a book with "God Eyes" and tell me what you find...then you can be posted on the world famous Foldier blog!!

God is Good
nate

Creativity

Take a look around this big earthly playground we live in....what leads you to believe that God is "creative". or is He?

how does he want us to be creative? or does He?

How's your UGLY?

My friend Whitney Kanika Fontleroy and I have had a small conversation that I will invite you all to join. Why is it that the friends we have met on the streets are very open with their issues(their ugly or drama) and struggles...?...?.....
and why is it that most middle to upper class folks surpress their DRAMA until they explode??
How would church be different if folks were more honest with their ugly?

Hoosier Deddy?

Who does Ruth look like?
Kim?
Nate?
Elvis?

Sex and Dating continued....

If everybody followed God's plan of purity until marriage....would that totally illiminate STD's and unwanted pregnancies/abortions?

DATING

To continue last Sundays discussion about dating....
1)Do you have anyfeedback from our discussion?
2)What are some healthy guidlines to dating?

or
What is the purpose of dating?

DIVORCE

Last year in the US, there were 3 divorces for every 7 marriages.
Does that seem high or low to you?
What would you guess are the greatest causes of divorce?

What would it take to lower the divorce rate in our country?

I have heard it said that "the most dangerous thing happening in our society today is the "weakening" of the family unit."
what do you think about all these questions?

FourSquare LAW

A Shane Claiborne Clip

Here's a quick snipit of Shane Claiborne,who wrote Irresistable Revolution. His actions and writings have really helped me to expand my understanding of Christ and his teachings.

Another World is Possible

Here are some cool websites that go along with our current topic of "The Simple Life". The book above is incredible for High School students and above. Shane's website is www.thesimpleway.org or www.awip.us is the "Another World is Possible" site.

Billy

The first time I saw him he was breaking into a locked dumpster at the Methadone clinic to drink the last few drops of methadone because he couldn’t afford anymore heroine. I walked closer to him and he begged me not to call the cops. I sat down behind the dumpster and listened to Billy’s story. He told me that he was 51 years old and he has been addicted to drugs and alcohol since he was 16 years old. I listened and tried to encourage my tired friend. He was sick of being addicted and he promised me that he was going to get clean….I didn’t believe him. So fast-forward 3 months. I’m in the public Library downtown and I hear this man yelling my name and walking towards me. I got nervous. It was Billy. He looked so much better than the times I had seen him in the dumpster. He proceeded to tell me that God had sent him angels to help him get clean and the I was one of them. I was confused. Someone scholarshipped Billy $12,000 to go to a really nice re-hab clinic and Billy has been clean and sober for over 90 days. Billy told me that he hasn’t been clean that long in 35 years. He thanks me for not calling the cops on him and listening to him instead. Billy is a new man.
I thank you God that you make us all new!!!!I praise you for sending Billy as my angel to remind me of your incredible power and love.
God is Good, Nate

DONT HATE APPRECIATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I would just like to say that this was for our love and appreciation for everything Nate and Kim do. You peeps are awesome and I pray every night for meeting you both. Also Ms. Nancy we all appreciate what you do and love you so much, and I especially thank you for asking me to help out with the youth activities (that really means a lot to me) and YOU BETTER WATCH OUT B/C WE ARE GOING TO GET YOU TOO!!!!!!!!!!!


DONT HATE APPRECIATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now here is another thing for all the foldiers. I am asking everyone if you would like to say something that you appreciate Nancy, Nate, Kim, and ALL THE OTHER LEADERS doing for you or something you appreciate about Nancy, Nate, Kim, and ALL THE OTHER LEADERS. I think this would be a great way of showing our appreciation and saying thanks for all they do and especially for all the other leaders that help out. YOU CAN NEVER SAY THANK YOU ENOUGH!!!!!!!!!

GOD BLESS!!!

Trent Stephen Matthews

Winter Retreat

click me to get the rental forms for the winter retreat!

or...click ME for the ski resort and snow report.

The Light of the World

I took this picture of a lightbulb on my parents porch the other day. It's been good to be away from Wilmington for a short period because it has allowed me to reflect on the youth ministry at SACPC.
This little bulb by itself gives off a little bit of light, but the entire strand together lights up my parents driveway. It has been a blessing for Kim and I to see the "strand" of young peope and youth leaders shine for Christ.

My prayer for you and me this Christmas is that we CELEBRATE the fact that the LIGHT has come into this world........and his name is EMMANUEL (God with us)



He gave us MINDS to Know Him.
He gave us Hearts to Feel.
He gave us Hands to serve
and He gave us Feet to Follow.


Contine to Shine for Christ!
I love each of you......nate